The End.

I never thought our friendship would of ended the way it did. I guess sometimes things are meant to be. As people always say.. " Everything happens for a reason."
What has happened in the last few days, has just re-confirmed my right decisions.
I have never met someone so stubborn, immature and selfish.
You said that you treat your friends with respect and expect the same (or something along those lines) but the things you did to me, did you think you respected me?
Do you know the hurt that you have put me through? I still don't think you do.
The last message to you, I mentioned Ray. I only put that in to see how you would act. And as expected, you blamed your own misbehaviours on him. That is even more childish & immature, especially for an over 30 year old.
Your definition of a friend is very different to mine.
But I think you have crossed the line.
You certainly don't know how to prioritise your friends and work out who are your true friends are, who are people you've met over the internet, or acquaintances. Being nosy and butting into other people's business is what you have done.

Because you don't know, i've copied the below from Wiki:

Some examples are as follows:
Best friend (or close friend): a person(s) with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.
Acquaintance: a friend, but sharing of emotional ties isn't present. An example would be a coworker with whom you enjoy eating lunch or having coffee, but would not look to for emotional support.
Soulmate: the name given to someone who is considered the ultimate, true, and eternal half of the other's soul, in which the two are now and forever meant to be together.
Pen pal: people who have a relationship via postal correspondence. They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintance between each other.
Internet friendship: a form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet.
Roommate: a person who shares a room or apartment (flat) with another person and do not share a familial or romantic relationship.

I didn't expect things to turn out the way it has, but our friendship has now ended.

I haven't felt the way I've felt in ages!!

After months of not exercising from injuring my arm and then preparing for my wedding. Today, I finally got to play a game of badminton for 1.5 hours with my hubby. It never felt so good to exercise and work out a sweat. I miss this feeling!! I love it :)

History: The Past

I've had many people come up to me in the last 2 weeks who have asked me a question which was asked by a dear friend of mine B, about 5 months ago. It didn't click to me that people were asking the same question until I sat and thought about it last night.** B, if you're reading this, yes, it's probably what you are thinking.** For the people who don't know, then you might want to stop reading here, as you might get bored. For those who think they know, you're free to read on.

When my friends see me and see how happy I am now, they wonder why I made certain decisions in the past. I was questioned, like "Are/Were you stupid? What were you doing back then?", and when I was questioned, I answered myself in my heart.

In a lifetime, you meet so many different types of people. You meet ones that come and go, ones that you have a relationship with, that don't work out, or that does work out. You also meet ones that stay your friends a lifetime, no matter where in the world they are, or as busy as they are with their lives right now, you know that when you pick up the phone to chat, you can chat like you've only seen each other yesterday, when in fact, you probably saw each other 6-8 months ago.

You can meet people that are boring, that are exciting *LEO's* or people that are totally opposite to the way you are. I've realised that boring people, or people who don't have much happiness or liveliness in them, the more reserved type, arn't remembered by people much. Some, their name can't even be remembered.

The moral of my babbling on today is: I know my reason, and I answered the question that was posed to me 5 months ago with a hand over my heart. Now, I can remove that hand and answer it with 100% confidence knowing that my answer is what my heart is telling me.

My 2010 resolutions

I have been so so busy from the end of last year, 2009 till now, that I've forgotten to think about my new year resolutions. It's something that I do every year, without fail.

From Jan 2010 till now, I seem to have fulfilled a few of my hearted wishes. One that also came up very unexpectedly too :P

I know that I won't be doing any exercise this year... so that's taken one of my usual NY resolutions of my list.

I've finally enrolled in my CFP 5 - the subject i've been dreading in the last 5 years. Unfortunately, this year is the last year I can complete it, otherwise I lose my CFP qualifications.
So.... the next 3 months will be assignment time and study for me.

Other than that, I'm just going to enjoy happy married life and learn to be a better cook for my hubby :)