Useless

I've never met a man more of a loser and he can be. I'm definitely not mentioning any names here BUT i'm sure some of you "might" be able to guess who he is.

So, this is what happened during a yumcha catch up with my girlfriend, her hubby, bb, A & I.

I got there first, sat down and got a table.

Girlfriend & family come. She sits down, says hi and sorts out her daughter. Her husband sit down and says nothing.

G: Have you said hi to Diana?

Hubby: silence...

a few mins later

G: Say jor hi mei ar ?

Hubby: a wave and a "hello" that you could barely hear

Then A who came about 10 minutes late appeared, sat down and said Hi to everyone. No response from Hubby.

G: Did you say hi to A ?

Hubby: huh?

G: Tong jor A say hi mei ar ? - a little impatient

Hubby: orh.. hello and a tincy little smile

Throughout the whole lunch, Hubby didn't talk. Just looked around and ate in silence. No expression. The type that even if you tickle him, he wouldn't smile.

Then later.. bb needs to go to the toilet. She looks at her baba and says "shoo shoo". Ba ba didn't react. He just sat there. Then she said it again, and he pushed her to her mum and said "She needs to go to the toilet". Not helpful at all, particularly since he wasn't doing anything at all, but after some nagging, and realising his daughter DID want him to take her to the toilet, he went very unwillingly.

Then, when we have finished lunch. My girlfriend forgot to bring a plastic bag to put her daughters dirty plates. She goes "hubby, can you ask for a plastic bag?" ... he looks around. No action.

5 mins later, "hubby, ask for a plastic bag will you?"

Hubby: Later sin... (but how later can you get when we've just paid the bill)

So I said to A, can you ask the waiters for a plastic bag. A waved his hand in the air, a waiter came in a spilt second and we got the plastic bag in 2 seconds. How hard was that ??

I said to my girlfriend "your hubby's pretty quiet and not very responsive, you talk to him like a baby" and her reply was simply "yeah, he is always like that. Even at home he is like that".

Boy.. I'm glad that my boyfriend isn't like that and I hope that my husband will not be like that either.